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Random Thoughts 02/23/2011
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  Michael and I were discussing about the problems of Labor and Delivery in America the other evening.
Did you know the the United States has perhaps the most advanced health care system in the world, but it also has the second-highest infant mortality rate of any industrialized nation? Why is this?
I have had four different doctors, and one midwife; and have delivered in five different hospitals. My experience has differed with each.
It is a rare thing for a doctor to see a full natural birth...Many women don't know what a natural birth experience ever is.
Is Birth a Medical condition or a natural part of giving life? In 90% of cases, it is a natural part of giving life...but many women are not getting that picture when going to the hospital to give birth.

Many times a typical labor goes like this...
  • Mom is scheduled for an induction or
  • Water is broke to get things moving
  • Contractions are not moving like doctor wants so PIT is given (drug to make contractions come)
  • Pain meds are given (because contractions with PIT are much more painful than normal)
  • Epidural is given
  • Labor slows down
  • More pit is given because contractions slowed down.
  • Baby is pushed out with mom on her back (because this is convenient for Doctor) or...
  • Now baby is in distress
  • C-section is offered
The best births I had were the three that had no intervention whatsoever. One was because I had the privilege of having a CNM (Certified Nurse Midwife) in the hospital. The other two were because the children came very quickly.

My husband and I were discussing Stephen's birth because we had made it to the hospital, but not out of the van. Therefore, he was born in the van. However, my water did not break until the time of birth causing the labor pains to not be as intense.

The next day at the supper table Stephen, who is now 7, said, “Mom, I heard you talking to dad and now I know why I was born in the van!”
“Why?" I replied with a straight face.
“Because,” he said, “You did not get my water pumped 
With a straight face...I agreed, then quickly excused myself for a quiet laugh!




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Homeschool Schedule 01/08/2011
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 Are you looking for a good Homeschool Schedule that works for your family? Are you frustrated by not being able to "fit it all in?

Each home will have their own homeschool schedule that works just for that particular home. Looking at the guidelines of setting up a schedule is the best way to personalize your own.

Just because one schedule works for one family, it may not necessarily work for another family. The best homeschooling schedules are tailored to the needs of individual families.

Try these timeless tips...

So let's get started!

Homeschool Schedule Guidelines
      1. Set a time to start and end the day.
Part of being diligent with our homeschooling means that we do not lie in bed until we feel like getting up. DO NOT let them sleep until 9 am and never really get dressed.

In the real world, there is a time to get up and a time to go to bed.

My biggest concern when I started homeschooling my children was that they develop good habits. My children learn from me, because I am their teacher and their mom!!

No matter what they do in life, they will need the discipline to get up in the morning and to go to bed at a proper time.

        2. Schedule a lunch time and recess time.
I write the lunch and recess times into ours schedule to give my children a goal to work toward. It also keeps the day consistent.

Children need boundaries. I have found my children do much better when they know exactly what is expected of then.

        3. Determine you states laws on the number of hours and days of school.
Some states require number of days and some require number of hours.

In either case, it is important to now what days you plan on doing school and for how long... All year, 3 months on and one month off, or 9 months on and 3 months off.

Check out your states laws here! Check out your state's laws here!

        4. Consider the number of children in the household.
With 8 children in my household, different children are doing multiple tasks all through out the day.

Some of my little ones take naps in the afternoon...put that in the schedule.

My younger ones finish school earlier. This leaves me with more time in the afternoon to help the 4 older children and do music practice.

        5. Plan in normal household activities, such as cleaning, cooking, laundry, rest...
A good schedule not only includes teaching school, but has times to clean, cook,laundry, and nap in it as well. If I do not take the time to put these regular activities into my homeschool schedule...they do NOT happen!

In my schedule, I try to do all the cleaning and vacuuming while my older ones are independently working on school.

My preschool, kindergarten and first grade children (yes even my two year old) follow me around and help me clean. Check out age appropriate chores for preschool children. Then around 9:30, I start the younger ones on school.

        6. Schedule in extracurricular activities.
We go on field trips to the fire house, park, field trips, and library visits.

But don't forget grocery shopping, doctor appointments, music lessons... Don't let these times change your schedule...just add it in.

        7. Plan in chores for the all the children.
It is very important that children in the household help in chores. Each of my children have a chore list...Even my preschoolers learn to do chores around the house!

Mom does less work if everyone is pitching in.

In our household, everyone needs to be showered, dressed, hair brushed, bed made, bathroom clean,and room cleaned BEFORE breakfast. With five bedrooms, that is five less rooms I need to clean in the morning. This works for after school and before bed as well.

        8. Make a list of all the things you’d like to accomplish each day, estimate the time required for each.
Make a list: school, cleaning, meals, laundry, nap, music practice...

Then put how long each of these might take to accomplish.

        9. Create a schedule that allows you to get your school, housework, meals, sleep, and activities finished.
Be realistic with your times...yet not rigid. The schedule is to give you some guidelines to work with not to stress you out!

        10. Schedule the hardest subjects when the children are at their best.
My older children do Math, Science, and History first. These are their harder subjects. They take longer and use more brain cells! I have planned these in the morning, because this is the time when they are thinking the best!

        11. Decide whether you want a time/clock schedule or an after breakfast and before lunch type schedule.
A time schedule is when you are set on the clock. For example 7:00 is breakfast, 7:30 start math, 8:30 history...ect.

On a before breakfast schedule: Certain chore or tasks are accomplished before breakfast...OR...Math, Science, and History or finished before lunch.

Depending what works best for you is the type of schedule you pick.

Now What? Sit down and create your unique homeschool schedule!

It is important to have a schedule for homeschooling, yet be flexible, don't let the schedule control you.

It is just a guideline to help you accomplish your daily tasks. Try many different schedules to find the one that works best.

In the end, your hard work will pay off and everyone in the home will be happier for your time and effort!



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Homeschooling a Large Family 09/12/2010
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Any homeschooling family with more than one child knows the challenges of keeping "destructo" baby for destroying the house in ten minutes  during school hours! Nursing babies, fussy babies, and destructive, energetic toddlers.. what do you do with all of the little ones while teaching school?

Sometimes, if you were to walk in my house you would see groceries needed to be put away, 10 loads of laundry needed to be folded, supper not on the table; in fact, lunch is still on the table, babies crying, toys out, I am still in my jammies, beds not made, and chaos reigning.

On the other hand, on any given day, you could see the children set on our schedule, which keeps us all happy and moving along in a clean house, my 6 children doing school, all the laundry folded ready to be put away, my two year old napping, the 5 year old playing quietly, and supper in the crock pot ready for a family supper together.

Having a organized house is not the easiest goal to attain when raising a large family and homeschooling on top of it all...in fact, it's impossible... sometimes! But can it be done?

YES!!

We have set up a schedule this year that will hopefully prove to be a either a success...or...a Zoo!!

For those of you who want a peak into my schedule...hold on...are you ready?

1. Every one up, showered, and dressed by 7:00, to meet at the breakfast table for breakfast and prayer.

2. ALL children clean up the kitchen (more on our fast cleanup method later).

3. 7:45 -   all children 1st to 10th grade at their desks starting school.

Meanwhile...I straighten the upstairs and dress my 2 year old and 5 year old, throw a load in the washer, run the vacuum...

4. 9:00 -  start my kindergartener  on school and help all other children as we plod on...

5. 12:00-1  break for lunch and recess.

6.  Nap and rest time for the 2 year old and kindergartener.

7. 1:00 -  Autumn's music (violin)

8. 2:00 -  Joshua's music (violin)

9. 3:00-4 DO NOT BOTHER MOM TIME!!!! I need quiet!!

10. 5:30 - supper

11. 7:00  - Family devotions

12. 7:30  - bed time for 4 little ones.

13. 8:30 -  bed time for next 3 big ones.

14. 9:00  - Bed time for oldest.

15. ALL KIDS ARE IN BED!!!!!!

This is really my schedule...each child has their own charts and schedules they follow. This helps me keep up with cleaning, school, baths, etc.

Sometime I might share their chore charts and schedules...

Are we always organized!! Ha Ha! Ha! Ha! Ha!  Can you hear me laughing?  The goal is to be...if there is not a goal, what would there be to reach for?


I can do all thinks through Christ who strengthens me!!
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Children 10/26/2008
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Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord Psalms 127:3a

 

I am grateful for all of the reminders that each of our children is still with us.

 We have had a couple of sick kids the last several days. I can’t wait to get one night of full sleep. What is that like? I can’t seem to remember!  Autumn got up because her hand was hurting. Serenity wet her bed and coughed the rest of the night. Mercy was up two times because of a fever and a stuffy nose. Poor Stephen could not find his stuffed pooh bear he sleeps with every night. He must have lost it in his sleep.

 How good God is to give us children to raise and care for His glory.

 
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    My husband's been the pastor of Lighthouse Baptist Church in New Concord, Ohio for the last 9 years.

    We have been married for 16 years.

    We have eight children and one angel baby...Little Zachariah...who went to heaven early at 17 weeks gestation.

    I enjoy being the mother and teacher to eight wonderful children.: Joshua, Autumn, Melody, Carissa, Timothy, Stephen, Serenity, and Mercy!

    I am currently working on a information site for homeschooling.

    www.pros-and-cons-of-homeschooling.com

    Cassandra De Leon

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